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You should join our great online community now - you can win great prizes. You should subscribe to our free MyBroadband newsletter. Last Jump to page: Results 1 to 15 of Interracial dating in SA is easiest if you are a white male- thoughts? Yellowcardrocks View Profile View Interracial dating south africa durban Posts Private Message View Blog Entries View Articles. My thoughts, definitely yes, unless you have below average care in keeping yourself presentable intereacial or socially adept.
I''m and Indian guy and my claim is that interracial dating definitely is easier for the average white man as compared to men of other races. This is not to say other men can date interracially, many can and do but he will have to put in more effort as compared to the average white guy. I was having this conversation with arfica friend the other day. He's 20, white, male, not the most good looking though he does have some swag and he hooks up interracial dating south africa durban a lot of girls.
He told me that it is easier for him as a white male to hook up with non-white girls than white girls. A black girl also once told me that there are interracial dating south africa durban black girls that would like to date white guys because of the positive social aspect that comes with it. As an Indian guy, I even know that when Indian girls bring home white guys, its viewed positively.
If she brings home a black guy on the other hand, he will have to do some proving before he gets approval of the family the more high social status he is, the less work he will have to do. He will however have afric do much more work than the average white male. I remember Khaya Dlanga wrote something similar about coloreds having this sort of mentality as well. I also logged on to the interracialdating central website and viewed some profiles from SA its a site aimed at creating interracial relationshipsI noticed that nearly all girls there list looking for a white partner and a significant number even state that they will date white exclusively.
This was looking through black, Indian, colored and a few Asian girls. White guys in Sluth definitely have the biggest dating pool IMO. The only ones who they will have difficulty approaching and successfully dating IMO are Muslim girls but then again so will anyone who is not-muslim. I as a non-muslim Indian guy will probably have the same difficulty getting approval from interracial dating south africa durban muslim as any non-muslim does including white guys. Also, most white women date white exclusively no questions askedinterracial dating south africa durban what I get from viewing their profiles on SA dating sites.
Also, the few that do date interracially usually date non-white guys who grew up in majority white places take for instance Siya Kolisi Springbok rugby player and Mmusi Maimane. This is in no way a redpill rant. Its just to point out to dating virgo libra cusp guys that they will have it easier than us in this regard compared to non-white guys. Also, I can guarentee that if you are a white far left winger, interracial dating south africa durban Slovo, Interracial dating south africa durban Fischer type attitudes, you will do well with women of color.
I have seen this from a few of these guys at University. Last edited by Yellowcardrocks; at Hamster View Profile View Forum Posts Private Message View Blog Entries Visit Homepage View Articles. I rarely see a white male black female couple, but I often see a black male white affrica couple. Easy, I dunno, but a deck-top seems to be the more popular combination.
White- Black is not the most common interracial pairing in SA. According to stats, interracial dating south africa durban is actually colored female- black male. Over recent years, there have also been increasing unions between South Asian immigrants and black women. I think its usually of mutual benefit as the guy gets some level of security and the lady gets a breadwinner most often they are poor women I think these guys will be classified as Indian once they get naturalized.
The race obsession inherracial. Originally Posted by Yellowcardrocks. I'm a white guy with an Indian fiance but doubt I'll ever get her family's approval. No matter what I'll never date a white girl again though. From my experiences as an Indian male, most Indian families are supportive of their children dating whites especially the modern, and interracial dating south africa durban Christian ones. Indian durhan also put white guys on a pedestal. I dont blame them, its probably due to media influences.
Most of the guys paraded in Western media are white and usually Indian guys are shown depicting stereotypes in Western Media. I know some Indian girls who parade their white boyfriends as if they are some form of Gods. It probably also has something to do with datinh admiration of fair skin by a lot of Indian people which sickens me. The parents you are dealing with are probably old school Hindu's but most Indian parents are generally supportive if the guy is white.
I doubt you will have to go through anything compared to a non-white getting the approval of white parents and I afric if it was a non-white guy in your position, it would have been harder for him.